"I can't share disagreement with you on that point," Merwen says, with a bit of a smile. Truthfully, she has the feeling she's missing something here, but that's a minor problem, and they have just met, after all. No sense in prying too much too soon. "But of course you should take comfort wherever you can, in whatever form you can, and if you found a world where you can be happy, then that is a sensible place to make a home."