"You don't have to know right away. You're going through a lot right now, which means the most important thing to do is look after yourself. Rest a little while you're here. As much as you can. Take time to think about things, when you're ready to.

"But just don't beat yourself up in the meantime, okay? No human should be dealing with that. Especially not someone your age, okay?" And he doesn't say that to be insulting. He doesn't even think he would be the right age to handle that.