Hey, no worries-you didn't hit me so no harm no foul, right? [ He offers a small smile and shrug. ]

But uh, really you shouldn't stare-the void can give you a pretty kicked headache.

[ He definitely uses the term as more gender-neutral but if she asked him not to, he'd stop Or try to. He'd definitely slip up here and there but he'll at least apologize for it! ]