"Usually, yes. There's cases where it doesn't happen though; intersex. I can't say much as I don't know much, but I've heard the normal thing is to let the person figure things out as they grow up, but again, I don't know the nuances of that."

There's an awkward shrug at the end. She honestly wishes she knew more, but this now starting to get into 'things she knows about in passing'. "But I think a lot of them go with 'they/them'. Sorry I can't be of more help. At the end of the day, just... go with what feels right, and if that's 'he', then that's that."